A great lesson I learned on waiting for the past months was “preparation”. I realized I was waiting but not doing much preparation.
Being single just gives us a lot of opportunities to be the person that God wants us to be. And it would be so sad if we would miss those. We are missing the blessings of being single.
We all have our list of qualities that we’ve been looking for that “God’s best” but the question we should be asking ourselves, are we also having those qualities to be someone’s “God’s best”?
For example – we want a person who consistently walks with the Lord. I would want that too. But we should ask ourselves, are we also consistent with our walk with God? If not, then we should do something about it, right?
Preparation will never be in vain. But let not our motive be of doing it just because we are waiting for someone. Let God be the author of it. And you? Be a woman after God’s own heart, and no one else’s.
“A woman’s heart should be so hidden in Christ, that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.” – Maya Angelou